President Newt or President Mitt?

…and economic decline. Good luck with that, Mitt. For without principles to guide your management, there will be no management worthy of the name. So it has come down to a choice between a man who believes in ideas, but apparently has none (Gingrich); and a man who is happy to subscribe to whatever point-of-view will get him elected (Romney), even though he never had an original idea in his life. There were, arguably, better voices in the Republica… Continue reading

Addicted? Stop Waiting and Help Yourself

…on them. He might feel remorse or regret, but he continues to act on those compulsions anyway. It’s a choice every time he does so. Others with the same compulsions do not act on the choice. Even the current gambler might make different choices starting in a month, or a year. The back pain sufferer has no such option. He can attempt physical therapy or other medical procedures or treatment. These may or may not help. But he does not have the power… Continue reading

America’s Politics Hits Bottom

…participated in it for many decades. More of the spending has been done by Democratic administrations and Democratic Congresses. The current crisis came about sooner than it otherwise would have because the Democratic administration and Congress of 2009-2010 ran up the national debt more than all previous administrations and Congresses combined. But there’s plenty of blame to go around. The George W. Bush administration and the Republican Congress… Continue reading

Shooting the Tea Party Messenger

…reated by the failure of the private economy to grow. Government has not become less greedy, but the private economy has become less productive. Unemployment is going up and we’re barely, if at all, out of the years-long recession that began in 2007-2008. Government, as represented by the precious welfare state of Democrats and establishment Republicans, has a massive conflict of interest. It needs people to be dependent on their entitlement, welf… Continue reading

Bad Marital Therapy, Good Marital Therapy

…select for a better therapist and know one when you see one. For example, come up with a concrete list of items which describe, “My marriage as it might be and ought to be.” First, summarize the strengths since you identified they’re already present. Be concrete and specific in what you’d like to see under the category of “improvement needed.” Ask your wife to do the same. A good therapist will be delighted you did this homework ahead of time, an… Continue reading

The Therapist You Call Doctor

…the culture of underachievers and passive saps that many Americans have become. This is not the way to confidence, self-esteem and efficacy, either. The purpose of psychotherapy is deeper than correcting problems. Correcting problems is necessary, but not enough. Good therapy ought to teach you, and help you internalize, a rational philosophy of life. Therapists are life coaches of psychology, and in order to be useful they must grasp themselves… Continue reading

Critical Thinking vs. Wishful Thinking

…inking. There would be no President Obama nor a President Bush, nor a President Romney or President Gingrich, in a culture where people engaged in even a little bit of critical thinking about political matters. In politics, most people are engaging in wishful thinking, not critical thinking, which is why most of us keep hiring idiots and liars to lead us. The same applies in the realm of what passes for moral and spiritual leadership, whether in t… Continue reading

Social Security Cannot — And Should Not — Be Saved

…ll missing the point: That Social Security cannot be saved. The proof will come when Social Security actually becomes so insolvent that it cannot make payments to current or near-term retirees. (Opinions on this vary, but it could happen within the decade, especially as the economy continues not to improve, or even worsen.) What will happen when Social Security becomes blatantly insolvent? There will be two camps. One will be like Chris Christie,… Continue reading

Having a “Bad” Day

…everal. For example, you might seek to survive and develop a sustainable income but also, at the same time, become a doctor, a successful businessperson, or a writer or artist. In many cases, people work to earn a living as a way to subsidize their real passion, something that isn’t (at least yet) financially sustainable as income but still worth doing. Obviously it’s best, when possible, to make a living doing what you love. But if you can’t, it’… Continue reading

Even Reagan Couldn’t Fix This Mess

…e not to send them legislation they dislike. If all of past history is any guide, they won’t. Republicans in the House will cave and compromise with liberals in both parties to produce the same old same old. At “best,” they’ll return us to the billion dollar deficits of the Bush era rather than the trillion dollar deficits of the Obama era. Shrewd liberal Senators (including Republicans such as Scott Brown, from Massachusetts) worry that Tea Party… Continue reading

Emotions Are Ideas

…very psychotherapist has a philosophy, whether he knows it or not. It will guide how he guides you. When you accept that your feelings imply certain ideas, you are taking responsibility for your own mind. You don’t say: “I’m unhappy all the time because my mother didn’t love me enough.” You don’t say: “I’m unhappy all the time because there’s not enough government funding for social services, health care, or mortgage financing.” You don’t say: “I’… Continue reading

Republicans Obstruct? Yes They Can

…is neither conventionally liberal nor conservative, but simply insane — as demonstrated by his toleration of a national debt that is bigger than it took 220 previous years of American history to run up. It’s the duty of a Congress to obstruct a bad President with bad ideas and policies that will surely wreck the country. To suggest, as liberals are now doing, that “obstructing” is the main concern is to elevate the importance of a strategy above i… Continue reading