It seems that we’ll never truly hear the end of the horrific case of Earl Bradley, the pediatrician who abused so many children at his office in Lewes, De. The entire situation is almost unthinkable, but it has generated many … Continue reading
Category: Life’s a Beach!
No to bullies! (Delaware Coast Press)
With all the political rhetoric about bullying going on here in Delaware, the subject recently hit a little too close to home. A good friend confided to me that his son — a smart, gentle and pleasant 11-year-old, was being … Continue reading
Listen to Yourself (Delaware Wave)
We should be careful about the way we phrase things when talking about ourselves or others. And ‘being nice’ has nothing to do with it; the way we phrase things has an impact on how we view them, and sometimes … Continue reading
The Psychology of Disguise (Delaware Coast Press)
The high holy days of masquerade are upon us, and rarely does a Halloween go by without my getting a few inquiries about the psychology of costumes and disguise. Ancient mystical beliefs held that if you disguised yourself on All … Continue reading
For the Love of Pets (Delaware Wave)
Dear Dr. Hurd, In a recent Life’s a Beach column, you wrote, “The death of a beloved pet is certainly among the more difficult situations I face across in my office. I try to help people correct the mistaken belief … Continue reading
Lying’s a full-time job (Delaware Coast Press)
A local reader tells me that he has been unemployed for four years. He goes on to say, ‘My odds of finding a job seem to decrease as time passes. A friend has offered to compose a fake resume and … Continue reading
Beat shyness with action (Delaware Wave)
As the holiday season looms on the horizon, does the thought of walking into a crowded room or restaurant make you nervous? You’re not alone. Shyness, and the anxiety that goes with it, is a common psychological problem. Shyness doesn’t … Continue reading
Music hath charms… (Delaware Coast Press)
By the time you read this, the final notes of this year’s Rehoboth Beach Jazz Festival will have faded away. What is the magnetic effect music has on us? From the amateur flailings of American Idol, to semi-sober karaoke, all … Continue reading
Politics Got You Down? (Delaware Wave)
Dear Dr. Hurd, I disagree with some of my friends regarding the upcoming election. And now the holidays are coming up and I have to be with them. Yikes! Because of my frustration over what they say and think, I … Continue reading
Is all fair in love? (Delaware Coast Press)
Dear Dr. Hurd, I’m at a crossroads. I’ve fallen in love with my best friend whom I have known for years. The catch? She’s married with kids. I’m not entirely sure of the depth of her feelings for me, and … Continue reading
Your Life is Your Own (Delaware Wave)
I received an email from a reader who asks, ‘I’m not sure I can give proper advice to my brother. He’s gay and really loves our parents, who are slightly religious but don’t practice. They’ve made anti-gay remarks in the … Continue reading
What’s Your Opinion?
With an election season upon us, there’s no lack of opinions and observations. Many of them fall into the category of, ‘He never lets a fact get in the way of his opinion.” People often say, with contempt, “She’s opinionated,” … Continue reading