The season for valentines is just around the corner. How do I know that? Well, it’s when I get the most requests for insight into the things that couples complain about the most – and there are so many: kids, … Continue reading
Category: Life’s a Beach!
“Don’t Be a Quitter” … Always Wise?
A Delaware Wave reader emails that her father used to tell her to “not be a quitter.” But when she realizes she’s fighting a losing battle, she feels guilty just “letting it go.” She asks at what point being a … Continue reading
Beware of False Pride AND Fake Humility
Lately it has become fashionable to label people who have accomplished great things as being “arrogant.” The reason for this is best left to another column, but I suspect we wouldn’t be enjoying many of our conveniences and comforts were … Continue reading
Parents: Encouraging Independent Thinking is Your Sacred Responsibility
Over 35 years of talking to people about problems related to their childhood has taught me a lot about what kids got – or didn’t get (emotionally speaking) – from their parents. It’s a challenge to guide a human being … Continue reading
Tune Up Your Memory
My office is exactly eleven steps from the waiting room. About a minute ago, I found myself standing out there; utterly clueless as to why I went in the first place. Whatever my perfectly good reason had been for taking … Continue reading
We Are Mindful Beings – Even When We Sleep
Dreams have mystified us throughout history. We spend around six years of our lives — 2,100 days — in the shadowy world of dreams. But because of their deeply personal nature, we know few facts about them. But examination of … Continue reading
Making Peace With Food
With Christmas cookies and double eggnogs finally in the past (at least for this year), we’re now looking at a new year with its own summer season around the corner. The huge variety of restaurants here in the Cape Region … Continue reading
Post-Christmas Advice from Lucy Van Pelt
Does anyone out there remember the “Peanuts” comic strip? One of my favorites is the classic where the perpetually grumpy Lucy Van Pelt suffered from “Post-Christmas Letdown” over gifts she didn’t get. But what about gifts you got, but for … Continue reading
Can You Be Alone Without Being Lonely?
The holiday festivities combined with the pastoral beauty of our coastal community can bring a bit of soul-searching and an objective look at where your decisions have brought you. An old friend of mine once told me that people who … Continue reading
Real New Year’s Resolutions Require Resolve
Champagne, those little quiches and cocktail wieners are just around the corner! And let’s face it, they can sometimes result in pretty outlandish New Year’s resolutions. It can be a challenge to say what you mean and mean what you … Continue reading
Love is Not Changing Another
Before takeoff on a recent airplane flight, I noticed that the flight attendant’s government-required safety spiel included the warning, “In the unlikely event of a cabin depressurization, put your oxygen mask on first before that of your child.” In other … Continue reading
Your Time has Value. Spend it Wisely.
The holiday season is upon us, and it’s time to get together with pretty much anyone and everyone. Or is it? One of the issues I hear about in my office is questions about neighbors who drop in uninvited. Or … Continue reading