Dealing with couples’ conflicts can be stressful for everyone involved. One of the questions that parents often ask me is whether it’s right or wrong to stay together solely for the sake of the children. Their premise is that their … Continue reading
I get this question all the time when speaking to people: “How much is too much?” In other words, at what point does something become an addiction? If a person consumes X number of drinks (or cigarettes, or slices of … Continue reading
One of the subjects that comes up very often at this website is smoking. A website visitor emails that she has successfully reduced her cigarette intake from 22 to only 6 a day. Now she’s stuck, and asks for advice … Continue reading
There’s been a lot of attention paid to home schooling and public education in general over the last few years. Good, bad or indifferent, it reminds me of the occasional person telling me they don’t feel motivated to do something, … Continue reading
A reader emails that her father always cautioned her that “the grass is always greener,” i.e., that she should keep searching for something better than what she already has. She asks me if an endless quest for that “something better” … Continue reading
A Delaware Coast Press reader emails, “Dear Dr. Hurd, my “new age” friends are always telling me to “go with my feelings and say what I feel.” But is it advisable to just blurt out whatever happens to pop into … Continue reading
Couples, families and friends tell me that they fight over money more than anything else. But when I look closer, it becomes evident that the fighting is less about actual money and more about personal expectations and priorities. If differences … Continue reading
The New Year can be an opportunity to organize your schedule and prioritize your goals. But some get tripped up by making their schedules too inflexible. An organized schedule reflects an organized mind, but if you want to improve your … Continue reading
The New Year brings all sorts of resolutions and promises, and one of the most popular is to get things clean and in order. People often ask me if it’s obsessive or neurotic to enjoy cleaning, and I have good … Continue reading
That New Year’s spirit is in the air! Are you all stocked up with black-eyed peas and turnip greens? Each portion is supposed to bring financial luck in the coming year. The proof for all this apparently lies in the … Continue reading
Ahhh, yes, the sound of New Year’s resolutions echoing amongst the egg nog and discarded stick-on bows! I recently received an email from a reader who wants to moderate her drinking, smoking, eating, etc. Her husbands is all for it, … Continue reading
A teenager emails that his parents treat him more harshly than they treat his older brother. They are not abusive, but they consistently hold him to a stricter standard. His brother gets Cs and they don’t say anything. But when … Continue reading