‘The holidays are so stressful! Shopping is such a chore. Christmas starts up so early these days. It ruins all the fun!’ Many people, especially those with large families, feel pressure at this time of year. Does it have to … Continue reading →

As kids settle into the school year, the subject of bullying inevitably comes up. Parents, teachers and kids ask me what makes bullies act the way they do. Well, there are competing theories, and I could probably write a whole … Continue reading →

Many people I have had the pleasure of meeting here at the beach are older and retired, having moved here to settle in and be happy. Some of them, however, tell me that getting older can be difficult, and they … Continue reading →

A Wave reader in Ocean View writes: Dear Dr. Hurd: I have been down and depressed for a while now. My doctor prescribed medication for the problem, and says my depression is a disease. But I feel that I have … Continue reading →

November already! Crisp ocean breezes, intense fall colors, and bundled-up strolls on the boardwalk will all culminate in the happy ritual of Thanksgiving. The holiday’s association with feasting, family and Alka Seltzer implies, by necessity, a duty to provide and … Continue reading →

Dear Dr. Hurd, I read your column every week, and I really like what you say. But sometimes, when I try to make suggestions to my husband or my adult children, it turns into an unpleasant ‘heated discussion.’ I am … Continue reading →

As it begins to get really quiet here at the beach, and the holidays draw near, decisions regarding travel, family visits and time spent with friends can sometimes be tinged with one, common feeling: guilt. In spite of all the … Continue reading →

I never really thought much about ‘wildlife,’ one way or another, until I took up residence near the Assawoman Wildlife Refuge. Since then, I have witnessed the occasional blue heron, sauntering regally down my street. I’ve gazed in wonder at … Continue reading →

Cell phones, cell phones, cell phones! On the beach, the boardwalk, the highway, in the grocery store, in restaurants’. Why do people like to talk on cell phones so much? Or, from a psychological point of view, maybe the real … Continue reading →

  You can’t control other people. Not your spouse, kids, teens or, to some extent, even your little ones. Sure, you can try, but it never works in the long run. So what can you do if you sincerely have … Continue reading →

As the busy summer season winds down, people who live in resort areas will often experience increased interaction among friends, family and spouses. In spite of all the positive aspects, though, some of this time together might not be so … Continue reading →

In spite of the recent hurricane that (temporarily, I’m sure) dampened its spirit, the character of New Orleans will always celebrate a joyful contempt for everything I hold dear. Like being on time. Or stopping after two glasses of red … Continue reading →