After much study and research, I have come to the conclusion that there are basically two types of people in the world. The first are the people who can’t stand to move their car from a parking space until they … Continue reading
Category: Life’s a Beach!
Depressed? Turn off TV news!
It amazes me how people can act like smart consumers in some situations, and like helpless pawns in others. Consider the way most of us handle the news—especially television news. I’m not talking about political bias here. I’m talking about … Continue reading
Can “closure” end the pain?
I received an anxious email from a reader who is seeking ‘closure’ from his girlfriend who recently dumped him. A vague (but popular) concept, ‘closure’ means seeking a neat, painless ending—along with the cool, detached perspective of time. Unfortunately, time … Continue reading
Don’t Take It Personally!
One of the things I like about living at the beach is the wide variety of restaurants (and, perhaps, the occasional bar, but only for research purposes, you understand’). Sometimes, though, the experience can be marred by bad service. It’s … Continue reading
Are you a Child Whisperer?
One of my favorite TV shows is ‘Dog Whisperer’ on National Geographic Channel, featuring the celebrated dog behavior specialist, Cesar Millan. His common-sense approach to controlling the conduct of dogs works unfailingly, time after time. Interestingly, in every episode it … Continue reading
A little respect can help get things done
I hear horror stories all the time about bad experiences with service providers such as plumbers, electricians, contractors, mechanics and the like. I find it hard to believe that there can be so many trades people out there who are … Continue reading
Who are we to judge?
I received a surprising number of emails and letters regarding my column about when—and when not—to end a friendship. While most of you agreed that there’s almost endless potential for friendships out there, some accused me of being too ‘judgmental.’ … Continue reading
How to handle an obnoxious person
A reader from Ocean City writes, Dear Dr. Hurd, I always associate our annual condo meetings with the start of a great summer. This year, however, I have discovered that the new president of our association is’well, just plain obnoxious. … Continue reading
Is your college kid an adult?
For parents of college students, summer can be an opportunity to reconnect with the children who’ve been living away from home—many for the first time. Although it’s reasonable to expect it to be a happy experience, it can be full … Continue reading
Replace Labels with a Healthy Outlook
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: I love it when I hit a nerve. Apparently I stirred things up a bit with my article questioning the effectiveness of ‘multitasking.’ You know, the process by which one does … Continue reading
Twelve Steps to Less Stress
Life, like anything of value, isn’t free, and stress is part of the price we pay for living. But stress isn’t always unhealthy. It can be a signal that you’re accomplishing productive and important things—your career, raising kids, or enjoying … Continue reading
Do friendships last forever?

Many years ago I spoke to a woman who was thoroughly fed up with a friend of hers. She just didn’t enjoy being with him any longer. Though she had already decided to back away from him altogether, she still … Continue reading