I don’t understand the term “loser.”
Life is not something you win or lose at. It’s not a game of chance. It’s something that you either make the most of, or that you squander. It’s something that you either engage in productively, for the sake of achievement–or lazily, for the sake of nothing in particular. I don’t evaluate people’s lives as to whether they win or lose. I evaluate people as to whether they live life fully and productively–or not.