One Thing Even More Important than Honesty

When looking for honesty in a person, look for self-awareness first.

Because without self-awareness, there will be no honesty.

Honesty implies objectivity and truth. Self-awareness is a willingness to be objective and truthful with oneself — about oneself.

Nobody is infallible. But you are safe with a self-aware and objective person. It’s not that he will never err. But he never will say one thing, do another — and then, when confronted with it, deny that it’s happening.

It’s hard to know on a first meeting if someone is self-aware. But in time, you’ll know. Don’t ignore what you find out.


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