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| Daily Dose of Reason - Psychology & Self-Improvement | ||||
| Tuesday, 09 February 2010 00:00 | ||||
Shame is a major fuel of irrational, unnecessary anxiety. Shame is not the same as guilt. The emotion of guilt applies (rightly or wrongly) to remorse over one’s actions; shame refers to remorse over one’s thoughts or even emotions (in addition to actions). A guilt-ridden person did something wrong -- or at least thinks he did. A shame-ridden person also believes he did something wrong -- not necessarily because of what he did, but because of what he thought and felt.
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Shame is a major fuel of irrational, unnecessary anxiety. Shame is not the same as guilt. The emotion of guilt applies (rightly or wrongly) to remorse over one’s actions; shame refers to remorse over one’s thoughts or even emotions (in addition to actions). A guilt-ridden person did something wrong -- or at least thinks he did. A shame-ridden person also believes he did something wrong -- not necessarily because of what he did, but because of what he thought and felt.